Chiron in 11th House
I don’t know it all when it comes to social reform. I feel acutely sensitive about my long term goals and dreams. I can become profoundly wise by developing relationships with like-minded people. I release myself from pain when I accept my own aspirations. I reconnect with people when I realize that others experience the same problems that I do.
Chiron is associated with the emotional wounds we receive early on in our lives. The sign Chiron is in will dominate but the house placing will show in which area the personality is motivated and into which they will put their efforts. In the eleventh house, it may indicate rejection from peers because of being ‘different’. You may feel some discomfort in large groups, so you only associate with people of like mind. You have a capacity for leadership, if only you would loosen-up with strangers – we are, after all, connected to everything and everyone. You have a special thing to do in this life, you ‘just’ have to realize what it is.
When you have the Chiron in the 11th house, you will find problems in areas like friendship, hopes and wishes. You might have trouble making new friends during this stage. Failed attempts at making friends can make some people every reclusive. They end up closing themselves from society and go into a recluse. While a little recluse is good for reflection, a long period of time can have many adverse effects. Such feelings of loneliness that comes with a long period of recluse often make the individual to compulsively try seeking out friendship by joining different groups. The desperate need to make friends will also attract people who will eventually try to take advantage of you. Some will even have trouble holding on to their existing friends.
Chiron in the 11th house can lead you into a vicious circle regarding your friends. You might end up helping your new friends with everything they require even if it means suffering a little bit on your part. This feeling of giving may give you a little bit of satisfaction and you might think that it fills the hole of loneliness you have inside, but it won’t. That void can only be filled by real friends and people who truly care about you. Trying to do so otherwise will be trying to fetch water with a container filled with holes.
Having Chiron in the 11th house will also make you struggle to feel special. You might think that you are being rejected by everyone you know and such feelings may plunge you into a deeper hole of insecurities. Having someone in your life who is supportive and who doesn’t take you for granted will help you to overcome any such difficulties. During this stage, you should think about the various things that make you unique and special. By focusing on these traits, you will be able to find out what you have to do in life.