Ascendant in Aries / Descendant in Libra:
In close relationships you worry about your personal image and you can blame yourself when relationships fail. You tend to assert your independence; you like to get your own way and if you don’t get it, you do your own thing independently, but underneath you need to know that someone cares about you and that you are number one. You can put pressure on relationships which can challenge the harmony within relationships but this is usually through boredom. You want your partner to think about you and your needs but you only consider your partner’s needs in as much as it suits you. When relationships become too boring you may look elsewhere for excitement, possibly through friends. In seeking excitement, other relationships can be formed which can alert you to the fact that the boredom in your previous relationship is unsatisfactory. You tend to attract partners who look to you to make their decisions, but you can feel trapped in dependent relationships. You prefer partners who are independent and decisive, you admire strength and integrity. All relationships are centered round your independence and freedom. You can be the driving force behind your partner’s success because you give your partner the courage to challenge life in a positive way. You will give leeway in relationships but once boredom sets in you can switch off, and you may decide to break the relationship. To maintain balanced relationships you must learn to be less self-centered, more sharing and more considerate of your partner’s needs; then your relationships will be balanced and rewarding. (Source).